Dreaming of tea time, red buses, and weekend trips to London (yes please ๐โโ๏ธ)? If youโre wondering whether au pairing in the UK is still possible after Brexit, the answer is: yes! ๐ But the rules have changed, and itโs important to understand your options before packing your bags.
Please note: we always recommend following the official guidance on the UK government website.
Watch this video for more information on au pairs and entering the UK after Brexit:
Quick overview of regulations in the UK
| Official Au Pair Visa | No (Either ETA(most common), Youth Mobility Scheme Visa, or Visa free [only for UK or Irish citizens]) |
| Typical Age | 18-35 |
| Working Hours | 30-35 hours per week |
| Pocketmoney | ยฃ360 per month |
| Days off | 2 continuous days per week |
| Holiday | 2 weeks paid holidays for a 6 month placement |
| Accommodation | Private room with host family |
| Meals | At least 3 meals per day provided |
Au Pair Requirements
Age: 18โ35 years old
Hours: 30โ35 hours/week
Days off: 2 continuous days per week
Holiday: 2 weeks paid holidays for a span of 6 Month placement
Room and food provided by family
Host Family Requirements
Spare private bedroom for Au pair
Provide at least 3 meals per day
Set up and sign contract with au pair (We provide a template)
Optional contribution to travel costs & language course
Visa Options for Au Pairs in the UK
There is currently no dedicated Au Pair visa in the UK. Instead, au pairs must enter using other visa routes.
The most common options are:
- Visitor Entry (ETA)
- UK or Irish citizenship
Other options also include:
- Youth Mobility Scheme Visa
- Skilled Worker Visa (for professional childcare roles)
Option 1: ETA (Visitor Entry)
ETA Costs: ยฃ20 (apply here)
Stay: up to 6 months
Purpose: tourism, visiting family/friends, or short study
โ ๏ธ Important: The ETA does not allow you to legally work as an au pair.
If you enter the country the border police will check if you have a return ticket, but it is allowed to have a flexible booking date. You can expect extra questions if you travel with big luggage and they will ask you where you want to stay and what your plans are to visit the UK.
Traveling to the UK as a visitor? Our free preparation guide includes a complete border entry checklist, real-life examples of successful and denied entries, and the exact phrases to use (and avoid) when speaking with UK immigration officers.
If you enter the country the border police will check if you have a return ticket, but it is allowed to have a flexible booking date. You can expect extra questions if you travel with big luggage and they will ask you where you want to stay and what your plans are to visit the UK. If you travel with other plans, then being a tourist and mention you will work but you dont have a work or au apir visa there is the risk you are sent back at the border so be aware of this. If you are literally just there for a cultural exchange and see the country then this is oke of course.
โ ๏ธ Important: The ETA does not allow you to legally work as an au pair. Some au pairs share that they entered this way and described their stay as cultural exchange or tourism. While this happens, make sure to always check official guidance before starting your travels.
Traveling to the UK as a visitor? Our free preparation guide includes a complete border entry checklist, real-life examples of successful and denied entries, and the exact phrases to use (and avoid) when speaking with UK immigration officers. Be prepared and travel with confidence.
Option 2: Au Pairing as a UK or Irish Citizen ๐ฌ๐ง๐ฎ๐ช
If you hold UK or Irish citizenship, youโre in luck!
- No visa required
- No savings requirements
- No travel restrictions
This is the simplest option for exploring different regions of the UK while enjoying cultural exchange with a host family.
Option 3: Youth Mobility Scheme Visa ๐
This is the official route for au pairing in the UK.
Who can apply?
Citizens of:
- Australia (18โ35)
- Canada (18โ35)
- New Zealand (18โ35)
- South Korea (18โ35)
- Andorra (18โ30)
- Iceland (18โ30)
- Japan (18โ30)
- Monaco (18โ30)
- San Marino (18โ30)
- Uruguay (18โ30)
If you are a citizen of India, you hold an education qualification equal to or above RQF level 6 or have a minimum of three yearsโ work experience in a professional role equivalent to an eligible occupation listed in Appendix Skilled Occupations.
What to Expect
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A formal employment contract
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Host family as your legal employer
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At least UK minimum wage (labour law applies)
12โ24 month Pocket money
๐ Translation: this option makes au pairing more like a โreal job,โ with rights and protections on both sides. Perfect if you want structure and security.
Costs of the Youth Mobility Visa ๐ธ
- Application fee: ยฃ319 (Some host families offer to cover this cost partially, but usually the au pair pays this visa fee)
- Healthcare surcharge: ยฃ776 per year
- This must be paid upfront
- At Nina.Care we encourage your Host Family to cover part of the costs
- Good to know: If you stay less than 2 years, you can reclaim the difference
- Savings requirement: at least ยฃ2,530 in your account when applying
- Travel costs: Optionally the host can (partially) cover the arrival and departure travel costs of the au pair
- Room & Meals: Au pair needs to have their own private room and access to at least 3 meals per day
- Optionally the host can offer to cover costs for a language course
- Optionally the host can offer to contribute to a monthly local transport subscription
How Long Can You Stay?
Standard stay: up to 24 months
Australians, Canadians, and New Zealanders can extend for an extra year.
๐ Great option if you want stability, longer stay, and full work rights.
Requirements for a Youth Mobility Scheme Visa
In order to qualify for a Youth Mobility Scheme visa, you will need to satisfy UK Visas & Immigration that:
- You are aged between 18 and 30 (or 18 and 35 for Australian, Canadian, New Zealand and Republic of Korea nationals) on the date of the application.
- You are a citizen of Australia, New Zealand, Canada, the Republic of Korea, Hong Kong, Japan, India, Iceland, Monaco, Andorra, Uruguay, Taiwan, or San Marino or are a British Overseas citizen, British Overseas Territories citizen or British National (Overseas).
- If you are a citizen of India, you hold an education qualification equal to or above RQF level 6 or have a minimum of three yearsโ work experience in a professional role equivalent to an eligible occupation listed in Appendix Skilled Occupations.
- You have funds of ยฃ2,530 which you have held for a 28 day period within the 31 days before your application.
- You do not have any children under 18 who are living with you or are financially dependent on you.
- You have not previously been in the UK on the Youth Mobility Scheme route.
- You have paid the visa application fee and Immigration Health Charge and provided any required biometric information.
- You have taken a tuberculosis test, if required.
- You do not fall for refusal under the general grounds for refusal.
- The exact requirements you will need to satisfy will vary depending on your circumstances. You may want to speak to an immigration lawyer for expert advice.
- To discuss your Youth Mobility Scheme visa application with one of the immigration barristers, contact the Youth Mobility Scheme visa lawyers on 0203 617 9173 and read more here on the government website.
Option 4: Skilled Worker Visa (Childcare or Nanny Roles) ๐ผ
Some au pairs and nannies are now sponsored by families or agencies through the UK Skilled Worker Visa. This visa allows foreign workers to live and work in the UK if they have a sponsoring employer and a job that meets certain requirements.
What You Need to Know
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Your employer (family or agency) must be a licensed UK sponsor
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The job must meet the minimum salary threshold (usually ยฃ23,200+ per year for childcare roles, depending on duties and hours)
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Youโll need a Certificate of Sponsorship (CoS) from your employer
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You can apply for up to 5 years and extend
Costs
Application fee: usually ยฃ719โยฃ1,500 depending on stay length (apply here)
Healthcare surcharge: ยฃ776 per year
You may also need to prove savings or accommodation support from your sponsor.
๐ This option suits experienced au pairs, nannies, or childcare professionals who want a more formal career role with a longer-term stay.
โ ๏ธ Note: Most typical โau pairโ placements donโt meet Skilled Worker requirements unless the host family or agency is a registered sponsor. Always check with your prospective employer and verify their sponsor licence on the official list.
Timeline of the Process ๐
FAQs & Grey Area Experiences
Some au pairs shared their experiences when entering on an ETA or tourist status. Again, this is not an official recommendation, just what others reported:
What questions do border officers ask?
- โDo you have a ticket to leave the country?โ
๐ Many au pairs booked a return flight with a flexible date and later changed it. Officially, this is not allowed. - โWhy are you visiting?โ
๐ Au pairs often said โtourismโ or โvisiting friends/familyโ rather than mentioning work. Calling yourself an au pair at the border can raise red flags. - Luggage checks:
๐ Large suitcases may suggest youโre staying long-term. This can lead to extra questioning about your visa status.
How risky is it?
Some au pairs reported smooth entry, while others faced long interviews. Experiences can differ depending on the officer.
Quick Comparison: Youth Mobility Visa vs ETA ๐
| Youth Mobility Scheme Visa | Skilled Worker Visa | ETA (Visitor) | UK/Irish Citizen | |
| Length of stay | Up to 2 years (3 for some) | Up to 5 years | Up to 6 months | Unlimited |
| Contract | Formal employment contract | Sponsored employment | None (guest arrangement) | Optional |
| Pay | At least UK minimum wage | At least UK minimum wage | Pocket money + room & food | Pocket money + room & food |
| Legal status | Employee (with protections) | Sponsored employee | Visitor (not allowed to work) | Citizen |
| Border risks | None, you have a visa | None, you have a visa | Possible questioning or denial | None |
Which Option Should You Choose?
๐ ETA / Tourist Entry โ Short stays only; not for au pairing.
โจ UK/Irish citizens โ Simple and flexible.
๐ผ Youth Mobility Visa โ Best for young people seeking a cultural and work experience.
๐ฉโ๐ง Skilled Worker Visa โ Best for professional childcare roles and long-term stays.
At Nina.Care, we want to make sure your au pair journey is safe, smooth, and fun. Thatโs why we recommend following official UK government regulations, so you can focus on the exciting part: starting your UK adventure.