Hosting an au pair in the UK typically costs around £500 per month. This includes weekly pocket money, room and board, and sometimes contributions to transport or language classes. Families also pay for agency fees if they use one.

An au pair in the UK helps with childcare (school runs, babysitting, helping with homework, playing with children) and light household duties (tidying children’s rooms, laundry for children, preparing simple meals). They are not expected to do heavy cleaning, gardening, or act as a nanny.

Typical arrangements allow for up to 30 hours per week, including evening babysitting. The au pair must have at least two full days off per week and enough time to attend English language courses. Paid holiday is normally 2 weeks for a 6-month stay, or pro-rata for shorter stays.

A written au pair agreement is recommended in the UK. While not a formal employment contract, it outlines hours, tasks, pocket money, holidays, and house rules. This helps avoid misunderstandings.

• Au pairs must be 18–30 years old.
• The most common way to host an au pair in the UK are European candidates that apply to the normal visitor ETA (£20), with which they can stay for up to 6 month in the UK
• Au pairs must live with the host family and have their own private room.

Families can use au pair agencies or online matching platforms. Agencies are often helpful for navigating visa requirements post-Brexit. Families interview and agree on expectations before confirming a placement.

Open communication is encouraged if issues arise. If the match is not working, either side can end the arrangement with 2 weeks’ notice (unless agreed otherwise). Agencies can mediate and help find a replacement.

The au pair should be treated as a temporary family member, not an employee. Including them in meals, outings, and family traditions is expected. The UK program emphasizes cultural exchange—helping the au pair improve their English while sharing their own culture.