Experience life abroad from the inside, stay with a host family, feel at home in a new culture, and build confidence while exploring a new country. Learn the local language, make unforgettable memories, and get support from our team whenever you need it.
Free accommodation, meals & pocket money
Learn German & meet other au pairs
Up to 50% of your flight is paid
As an au pair in Germany, you become part of a culture that values reliability, honesty, and family time. Your days may include structured schedules, shared breakfasts, and active time with the children.
Germany gives you the opportunity to explore a country where every region is different: modern cities, quiet villages, forests, and festivals that bring communities together.
Living with a German host family gives you a real understanding of daily life here: traditions, celebrations, practical routines, and the meaning of togetherness. It’s a supportive environment where you grow, contribute, and feel included 🥨🇩🇪
As an au pair in Germany, you’ll receive approximately €280 per month in pocket money. This is the standard au pair rate in Germany and is considered a stipend related to cultural exchange rather than a wage. Your host family will also provide:
Read more about pocket money payments here.
Au pairs in Germany may work up to 30 hours per week (no more than 6 hours per day). You get at least one full day off per week, with one Sunday off per month. Paid holiday: at least 4 weeks for a 12-month stay.
An au pair supports with light childcare (school runs, babysitting, playing, helping with homework) and simple household tasks (setting the table, preparing meals, tidying children’s things). You will not do heavy cleaning, gardening, or full-time childcare.
A written standardised au pair contract is required in Germany. It must outline duties, hours, pocket money, holidays, and the length of stay. The contract is often needed for visa/residence permit applications.
Age Requirements:
Visa Requirements:
Additional Requirements:
You can use online platforms or au pair agencies. Agencies can be very helpful with contracts, insurance, and ensuring the au pair meets visa requirements. At Nina.care, we help you find your host family and provide additional support after a match.
If issues arise, you should first try direct communication. If the situation cannot be resolved, the agreement can be ended with reasonable notice (commonly 2 weeks). Agencies can step in to mediate and help arrange a replacement if needed.
Looking for something else? Have a look at our help pages:
The weekly schedule is a valuable guide to help you understand your tasks and responsibilities throughout the week. While it provides structure, it isn’t fixed.
With clear, timely communication, it can be adjusted whenever you or your host family have any changes or commitments.
Having a schedule not only sets expectations but also helps prevent misunderstandings. From our experience, many challenges arise simply because no plan was put in place.
That’s why we offer this template, to support smooth communication and a positive experience between you and your host family.
